"Encounter, Conversation, And Change " (John 4:3-14, 39-42)
People do not make friends through “pen-pal” nowadays but there was a time when pen-pal was once popular.
A young man in Taiwan came to know a woman through pen-pal.
He could not meet her in person because she lived far away, but he continued to write love letters to her.
He wrote two letters each day for a year, sending 700 letters to her.
But the young man could not earn the woman’s heart.
I think that if we received so many letters and confessions of love, we would fall in love with that person for sure.
But, the woman who received those letters got married to someone else.
Who did she get married to?
Yes, she married to the postman who delivered the letters.
The postman, who delivered 700 letters to her greeted the woman everyday face to face, they became acquainted, became friends, developed emotions of love, and eventually they got married.
Love letters are important.
Confessions of feelings are important.
However, it is hard to fall in love with somebody without meeting that person.
As we live this life, we encounter with many people.
An investigative agency survey said that we associate with about 800 people in our lifetime.
No matter how successful a person is, it is hard to keep up with meaningful relationships with more than 800 people.
Most ordinary people associate with less than 200 people.
With the development of social networks these days, friends and communities can be found anywhere in the world.
I also have about 1000 friends on my Facebook.
Honestly, I do not know everyone.
Many of them are my friends’ friends and knowing me through some other sources.
Whether it's online or in real life, it's true that we do not communicate and keep a meaningful relationship with many people.
Therefore, it is important ‘who’ we meet.
Depending on who you meet, the direction and purpose of life may change.
Even if it is just one person, the meeting with that person may bring a significance in your life.
Who did you come to meet here?
Did you just come to see someone here?
Or did you come to see me?
I hope we will meet Jesus here today.
I want to this church to be a place to meet Jesus.
Today’s scripture passage is about a Samaritan woman at the well who encountered with Jesus.
After meeting Jesus, there was a remarkable change in this woman’s life.
I want us to think deeper in this wonderful encounter, the conversation, and the change that took place.
In the Bible, we see many people encounter Jesus.
Among them, there were people who met Jesus and found the true meaning of life and changed.
However, some people have just returned without finding any meaning.
Sometimes there were people who betrayed Jesus and rejected him.
Not only in Jesus' time in the Bible.
It is the same now.
There are those who want to meet Jesus.
There are those who have met Jesus, but some people have not met.
There are those who met Jesus and live a changed life, others who refuse to meet with Jesus.
You have come to this place today putting aside other things to do.
You came to this place of worship.
On this beautiful Sunday, you could’ve gone somewhere to enjoy yourselves, or rested at home, or even met someone special but you put all these behind you and came to this place.
Then, should we not spend this time in vain?
We have to meet Jesus.
Like this woman who met Jesus by the well, I hope that this will be a time to meet with Jesus Christ for you and experience a wonderful new change in your life.
At the time of Jesus, Israel was a Roman territory divided into three parts.
When we look at the map of Israel land, it extends in length from north to south.
There was Galilee in the north, and Judea in the south, while Samaria was between Galilee and Judea.
But when the people from Judea traveled to Galilee, they bypassed without going through Samaria.
Going through Samaria will save a great deal of traveling time but people did not want to step into the land of Samaria.
The reason is that for a long time the Jewish people hated the Samaritans very much.
But we can find in the Bible that Jesus intentionally traveled through Samaria.
And when Jesus was resting by the well, tired from the traveling, he met a woman who came for water.
According to the Jewish law at that time, it is strictly prohibited for a man to greet a woman.
This accidental and unconventional encounter between Jesus and the woman at the Samaria well was in fact orchestrated by the grace of God.
That's right.
When we think a little more deeply, we experience accidental and unconventional meetings.
But God orchestrated meetings all the time in our lives.
Do you think you came to this place of worship just by chance?
I don’t think so.
It was God's plan and God's Providence.
The famous philosopher Martin Buber said that there are two kinds of human encounters:
“I-You” relationship and the “I-It” relationship.
“I-You” is a relationship that stresses the mutual, holistic existence of two beings.
It is a concrete encounter, because these beings meet one another in their authentic existence, without any qualification or objectification of one another.
But, “I-It” relationship is nearly the opposite of the “I-You” relationship.
It is the relationship the beings do not actually meet.
Martin Buber, says that meeting with God is “I-You” relationship.
Moreover, we need to encounter people with this “I-You” relationship perspective.
There are also various aspects in our encounters with people.
As we live, we would meet three kinds of people.
The first kind is the person whom we should not meet.
If you meet someone you should not meet, your life will be unhappy.
You will be negatively affected.
Then, not only you but also the people around you get hurt.
The second kind is the person whom you do not form a meaningful relationship with.
It can be described as “I-It relationship” of Martin Buber.
And the third is the person whom we must meet.
Your parents or your spouse could be in this category.
These are the people who will guide, positively influence, provide resources, and stay true to us for a life long time.
We need these people around us and we must meet them.
What is the most important encounter we must have?
20190714 Sunday Worship Sermon
"Encounter, Conversation, And Change " (John 4:3-14, 39-42)
People do not make friends through “pen-pal” nowadays but there was a time when pen-pal was once popular.
A young man in Taiwan came to know a woman through pen-pal.
He could not meet her in person because she lived far away, but he continued to write love letters to her.
He wrote two letters each day for a year, sending 700 letters to her.
But the young man could not earn the woman’s heart.
I think that if we received so many letters and confessions of love, we would fall in love with that person for sure.
But, the woman who received those letters got married to someone else.
Who did she get married to?
Yes, she married to the postman who delivered the letters.
The postman, who delivered 700 letters to her greeted the woman everyday face to face, they became acquainted, became friends, developed emotions of love, and eventually they got married.
Love letters are important.
Confessions of feelings are important.
However, it is hard to fall in love with somebody without meeting that person.
As we live this life, we encounter with many people.
An investigative agency survey said that we associate with about 800 people in our lifetime.
No matter how successful a person is, it is hard to keep up with meaningful relationships with more than 800 people.
Most ordinary people associate with less than 200 people.
With the development of social networks these days, friends and communities can be found anywhere in the world.
I also have about 1000 friends on my Facebook.
Honestly, I do not know everyone.
Many of them are my friends’ friends and knowing me through some other sources.
Whether it's online or in real life, it's true that we do not communicate and keep a meaningful relationship with many people.
Therefore, it is important ‘who’ we meet.
Depending on who you meet, the direction and purpose of life may change.
Even if it is just one person, the meeting with that person may bring a significance in your life.
Who did you come to meet here?
Did you just come to see someone here?
Or did you come to see me?
I hope we will meet Jesus here today.
I want to this church to be a place to meet Jesus.
Today’s scripture passage is about a Samaritan woman at the well who encountered with Jesus.
After meeting Jesus, there was a remarkable change in this woman’s life.
I want us to think deeper in this wonderful encounter, the conversation, and the change that took place.
In the Bible, we see many people encounter Jesus.
Among them, there were people who met Jesus and found the true meaning of life and changed.
However, some people have just returned without finding any meaning.
Sometimes there were people who betrayed Jesus and rejected him.
Not only in Jesus' time in the Bible.
It is the same now.
There are those who want to meet Jesus.
There are those who have met Jesus, but some people have not met.
There are those who met Jesus and live a changed life, others who refuse to meet with Jesus.
You have come to this place today putting aside other things to do.
You came to this place of worship.
On this beautiful Sunday, you could’ve gone somewhere to enjoy yourselves, or rested at home, or even met someone special but you put all these behind you and came to this place.
Then, should we not spend this time in vain?
We have to meet Jesus.
Like this woman who met Jesus by the well, I hope that this will be a time to meet with Jesus Christ for you and experience a wonderful new change in your life.
At the time of Jesus, Israel was a Roman territory divided into three parts.
When we look at the map of Israel land, it extends in length from north to south.
There was Galilee in the north, and Judea in the south, while Samaria was between Galilee and Judea.
But when the people from Judea traveled to Galilee, they bypassed without going through Samaria.
Going through Samaria will save a great deal of traveling time but people did not want to step into the land of Samaria.
The reason is that for a long time the Jewish people hated the Samaritans very much.
But we can find in the Bible that Jesus intentionally traveled through Samaria.
And when Jesus was resting by the well, tired from the traveling, he met a woman who came for water.
According to the Jewish law at that time, it is strictly prohibited for a man to greet a woman.
This accidental and unconventional encounter between Jesus and the woman at the Samaria well was in fact orchestrated by the grace of God.
That's right.
When we think a little more deeply, we experience accidental and unconventional meetings.
But God orchestrated meetings all the time in our lives.
Do you think you came to this place of worship just by chance?
I don’t think so.
It was God's plan and God's Providence.
The famous philosopher Martin Buber said that there are two kinds of human encounters:
“I-You” relationship and the “I-It” relationship.
“I-You” is a relationship that stresses the mutual, holistic existence of two beings.
It is a concrete encounter, because these beings meet one another in their authentic existence, without any qualification or objectification of one another.
But, “I-It” relationship is nearly the opposite of the “I-You” relationship.
It is the relationship the beings do not actually meet.
Martin Buber, says that meeting with God is “I-You” relationship.
Moreover, we need to encounter people with this “I-You” relationship perspective.
There are also various aspects in our encounters with people.
As we live, we would meet three kinds of people.
The first kind is the person whom we should not meet.
If you meet someone you should not meet, your life will be unhappy.
You will be negatively affected.
Then, not only you but also the people around you get hurt.
The second kind is the person whom you do not form a meaningful relationship with.
It can be described as “I-It relationship” of Martin Buber.
And the third is the person whom we must meet.
Your parents or your spouse could be in this category.
These are the people who will guide, positively influence, provide resources, and stay true to us for a life long time.
We need these people around us and we must meet them.
What is the most important encounter we must have?